We will provide an RSVP deadline as soon as we send out the invitations. However, if you already know you will (or will not) be able to attend, please let us know as soon as possible!

Semi-formal. Long dresses, dressy pantsuits or jumpsuits; suits and/or sports coats and ties. Keep in mind that the temperature can drop with the sun, so bring a light jacket or sweater in case it is needed. The ceremony will be outside on grass, and access to the venue is uneven in spots; be mindful if/when wearing high heels!

Due to space limitations, we are only able to accommodate those guests that we formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you are invited to bring a plus one, they will appear on your invitation and under your name when you RSVP.

With the exception of the children in our wedding party, we have elected to have an adults only ceremony and reception.

The ceremony will take place outside; the reception will take place inside the barn. In the event of inclement weather, the ceremony will be moved inside.

Weather in the Finger Lakes can be unpredictable in October. While we hope for a beautiful sunny day, there is always a chance of rain and it can get chilly at night. Please bring some layers (and an umbrella!) to be prepared for both.